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Compatibility Test

Must Haves:

Verbal Intimacy...
I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest emotional thoughts and desires.
Emotionally Healthy...
I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy, and able to share a stable life with someone else.
Strong Character...
I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough to do the right thing.
Emotionally Generous...
I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love.
Intellect...
I must have a partner who is bright and can share my understanding of the world as well as enjoy discussing important issues.
Shared Interests...
I must have someone who is willing to share my interests and passions.

Stepchildren...
I must have someone who will accept my children as their own.
Parenting Style...
I must have someone who shares my views about how to raise children.
Spirituality...
I must have someone with a similar deep commitment to spirituality, who shares my beliefs.
Responsible...
My partner must be financially responsible.

Can't Stands:

Lying...
I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me.
Cheating...
I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
Self-Centered...
I can't stand someone whose main topic of conversation is himself/herself.
Denial...
I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
Victim Mentality...
While everyone has times of self-pity, I can't stand someone who continually sees himself/herself as a victim.
Mean Spirited...
I can't stand someone who has a devious nature and is mean to others.
Racist...
I can't stand someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which they belong is superior to the rest of humanity.
Pornography...
I can't stand someone who views or owns pornography in any form.
Undependable...
I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is unreliable.
Infidelity...
I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a committed relationship.

Posted by Debby on April 28, 2004 09:42 PM
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Comments

And how is it that you seem to tolerate me when so much of me is on your "can't stand" list????

Posted by: Kandi | April 29, 2004 10:43 PM

I don't think so! You are awesome!

Posted by: Debby | April 30, 2004 02:14 PM

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